Day 20 – Fruit Garlands (30 Days Wild)

Our garden is full of birds right now. The wood pigeons that lumber so clumsily and serenade me every morning, without fail. The dunnocks that dance so daintily, splashing in the boys’ paddling pool as we watch from the window. The blackbirds that sing on an evening; a song that never fails to remind me of my childhood. 

This morning we walked to Aldi with the sole purpose of buying fruit for the birds. The boys each chose some fruit: apples, grapes and blueberries. 

Returning home, we sliced the apples and then I turfed them out onto the patio with a plastic craft needle and a length of wool. With the utmost concentration, the boys threaded each piece of fruit onto the wool creating an epic fruit garland for our feathered friends. 

Once finished, we tied it up to the fence panels and spent the afternoon watching the birds thieving from our rainbow garland. We sat by the window finishing James and the Giant Peach by Roald Dahl and getting lost in his magical story-telling.

Such a simple activity, but one that entertained the children for a long time. 


Day 19 – Silence (30 Days Wild) 

The boys met with friends at the splash pad this morning. This evening brought Beavers, their second week. 

Amidst the commotion of our days, together we slice peppers and onions for dinner. My eldest boy carefully measures out oregano and thyme, the concentration on his face mounting as he counts up the half-teaspoons in his head. He crushes garlic and pours in tomatoes. It’s a joy to watch him help without me even needing to ask. My middle boys grates cheese, with as much ending up being eaten as he manages to get in the dish. 

We eat together outside, the sun still beating down. The boys give me a running commentary on life. ‘Look, a shield bug!’, ‘Mum, did you see the squirrel?’, ‘what will we make with all these raspberries?’

After returning home from Beavers, the boys are full of stories of what they did, the other boys they made friends with and, ‘how many days ’til we can go again, Mum?’

My husband and I sit in the garden, the boys sleeping soundly upstairs. We share wine and chocolate, revelling in the day coming to a close around us. Silence is golden, so they say. And it is. The dog pants at my feet, his head seeking my fingers for a scratch behind the ears. He is glad the day is cooling down. I pick yet more raspberries to freeze. They’ve gone crazy this year. 

Despite how busy the days are, there’s a rhythm to them that leaves me content. I wouldn’t change these days for anything. 

Days 17/18 – Family (30 Days Wild)

I chose not to post this weekend. Not because we haven’t been getting outside, but because we were spending time with family and it was good to just put my phone down for a couple of days.

Saturday some new friends came over for an alfresco dinner and to help finish the shed base. The boys helped with loading up the cement mixer and then adding water. They dutifully filled the wheelbarrows over and over, weaving precariously down the side of the house with them once full. They were splashed with cement and didn’t have a care in the world. 

We sat with ice cold lemonades enjoying the sun, dipping dusty feet in the paddling pool. The boys ate burgers with fast melting cheese, spiced cous cous, falafels and houmous. Their lips were stained with the juice from freshly sliced beetroot. My youngest crunched on wedges of yellow pepper. 

Sunday the boys rose early, as they always do. Within moments the patio doors are flung wide open and they disappear outside. We are serenaded by the gentle clucking of the hens, the soft gurgle they make so effortlessly as they scratch in the dirt. The boys eat cereal in the deck chairs we didn’t put away the night before and I join them with strong black coffee. The sky is bright and clear, heralding the arrival of another beautiful day. The wrens sit with chests puffed out singing their song. 

It’s Fathers Day and the boys are covered in felt pen after having drawn endless pictures on cards for Daddy. He ambles down the stairs, pyjama clad and aching from yesterday’s work, and the boys throw themselves at him full of love. 

The day was spent with family, those precious times with folk you just don’t see enough of. Time and distance between you. Soaking up the sun. Laughter. 

Now Monday rolls round. 7.30 a.m. and already the boys are in the paddling pool, doors and windows wide open. The dog seeks the shadows under the patio table as the temperature rises steadily. 

It’s going to be a good day. 

Day 15 – Park, Paddling, More Parks and BMX (30 Days Wild)

I feel as if we’re not accomplishing much this week with 30 Days Wild. While we’ve been outside pretty much all day every day – they’re just normal days for us. 

It’s been a busy week, chock full of plans and we’ve not had the time to take a breather. 

This morning was spent with friends at the park. The boys splashed in the paddling pool, throwing balls, aiming water guns at everything in sight and soaking up the sun. 

After an early dinner, my two older boys went to a BMX session at another park with their father. They’ve returned home exhausted, scabs quickly forming on bloody elbows, bruised backs and scraped hands. They loved it. 

Within 20 minutes of being home the boys are scrubbed and in pyjamas. They sleep soundly, the way they always do. Fresh air, sunshine, adrenaline and exhilaration. What better way to end the day for three small boys? 

Day 13 – Tree Identification (30 Days Wild)

Armed with some tree identification reference sheets from Nature Detectives, we headed to our local park to investigate. 

We tied this activity in with some maths, discussing how to tally and thus, counting in fives. We discussed data, and made a bar chart to see which were the most/least common trees. Once we had identified numerous trees in the park, we guessed how old some of them were using this method. 

The method uses your hand span to measure around the tree. All three boys tried, and used the different calculations according to the measurement of their hand span. Simple pleasures for small boys. 

Fast forward to bits of paper and lidless pens being thrown in my bag and the boys were soon hanging upside down in their favourite climbing trees. Their confidence is growing and they slip past me in a whisper – no longer taking shaky steps but stepping confidently from branch to branch, ever upwards. It’s not until they reach the top branches, thinner and less stable, that they worry how they’ll get down. They’re a joy to watch as the day begins to wind down. 

We wander home down the canal path, picking great handfuls of dandelions and racing ahead of each other with breathless giggles. 

‘Mum! You take that path and we’ll stay on this one. We’ll see which one is quickest!’ 

My eldest loves the sticky-weed. Officially known as Galium aparine, or Cleavers – it sticks to most things thanks to its covering of tiny, hooked hairs. It’s also commonly known as Sticky Willy, which obviously, three small boys find hilarious, and I find myself wishing I hadn’t mentioned it. 

‘Mum, why have they painted the town through the tunnel? Look! There’s a Wickes lorry! There’s a school! Mum! They’ve painted the actual street we’re walking under!’

I love their running commentary on life. It makes you stop a while and marvel at the awe with which they see the world. It’s infectious, and I love it.